Why my bf is constantly asking me to give him oral in the public washroom?

Why my bf is constantly asking me to give him oral in the public washroom?

Here is a girl(19f) wrote on a social media:

"idk if this guy is weird for asking me to give him oral in the public washroom
i(19f) been talking to a guy (m20) i met on Tinder since March. we've gone on and off talking ghosting each other,etc.recently we met in person for the first time
the date started fine we just joked around listened to music, walked around, and he bought me a drink. but then things got weird..

he said he needed to pee and as a joke i said“pee in the bushes” he then said “if i take my pants off in a bush i expect head” i laughed it off and said i would never do that in a bush expecting the convo to end. he got in my face and said “but you're saying you would give me head otherwise?”i got so nervous but he kept asking so i just said yes. big mistake.

he started asking me multiple times to give him oral in the public washroom and i said no, he replied with“is that a complete no or can change ur mind”i said“no means no”he grabbed my hand and dragged me to the boyswashroom even tho i said i didn't want to go in. he took me to a stal and said we both wil enioy it and have fun. finally i was about to cave into the pressure but a guy came in and we both left.
i told him no again saying the washroom is dirty and people will see us..."

Honestly, this guy is way out of line. Trying to get you to do something that private in a public bathroom is just not cool—it's super gross and totally disrespectful. You kept saying no, and he kept pushing, which is a major red flag. That kind of pressure isn't fair to you at all and just messes with your head.

If he's really that desperate, he can just buy a sex toy with movable blowjob jaw and leave you out of it. Why stress your girlfriend out and make things weird when there are other ways to deal with it? A good relationship should make you feel safe, not pressured. 

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